बॉलिवूड अभिनेत्री कल्की लग्नाआधीच झाली आई

By टीम थोडक्यात On February 10, 2020 10:03 am

मुंबई | लग्नाआधीच गरोदर असलेली बाॅलिवूड अभिनेत्री कल्की कोचलिन हिने एका गोंडस मुलीला जन्म दिला आहे. कल्कीची प्रेग्नेंसी काही दिवसांपासून चर्चेचा विषय ठरत होता. मात्र आई झाल्यानंतर आता चाहत्यांकडून तिच्यावर शुभेच्छांचा वर्षाव होत आहे. तसेच मागील 2 वर्षापासून कल्की गाय हर्शबर्गसोबत लिव्ह इन रिलेशनशिपमध्ये राहत होती.

कल्की अनेक दिवसांपासून तिच्या बेबी बंपसोबतचे फोटो सोशल मीडियावर शेअर करत होती. तसंच तिने आपल्या बेबी बंपसोबत स्टायलिश फोटोशूटही केलं होतं. त्यामुळे तिला खूप लोकांनी ट्रोल केलं. मात्र, मी गरोदर आहे म्हणून लग्न करणार नाही, असं मत कल्कीनं मांडलं होतं.

गाय हर्षबर्गनं आपल्या बाळाचं एक असं नाव ठरवलं आहे की जे मुलगा किंवा मुलगी दोघांवरही सूट होईल. कल्की आणि गाय हर्शबर्गनं अजून लग्न केलं नाही. मात्र, आता लग्न करण्याचा विचार चालू आहे.

कल्कीनं सांगितल्याप्रमाणं वॉटर बर्थच्या माध्यमातून तिनं मुलीला जन्म दिला. कल्कीच्या मुलीची पहिली झलक पाहण्यासाठी चाहते आतुरतेनं वाट पाहत आहे.

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Love and hate. Seems to be everywhere these days. A world wide debate. But I don’t need to look far to find it. I see this cycle of love and hate in my own family. We curse eachother and scream and shout and break things, until we ourselves break. Then we cry, feel the guilt and look down at our feet. We hug gingerly, love reluctantly and forget quickly until it is repeated again. Love and hate. A habit. Like two magnets, in constant repulsion. Perhaps the opposite of hate is not love, but understanding. And the opposite of love is not hate, but neglect. There are so many uncomfortable extremes that make us feel we must react at once and put a stop to it – slam the door, walk away, shout your way to the other person’s silence, unleash unthinkable acts of violence. But living with discomfort all the time, as I do now, because it is inside me and I cannot escape it, I have to be patient. My body demands it, my mind shuts down, my heart can only beat. If I erupt, it is inward and I alone feel the heat. I feel small, very small, from the sheer mystery and unfamiliarity of the grand workings taking over inside me. And so, eventually, I’m reduced to baby steps, forced to listen and respond, to note down and break years of habit in this moment. Today the cycle will not repeat. Today I will plant a seed, allowing my intentions to grow into another being – another me, but more conscious, more careful . I feel as if this creature, which began as a virus of discomfort inside me, slowly threatening my independence, stalling my capacity to create, or to think for myself, and eating into my daily routine, is now firmly a mirror of my own insecurities, a counter to my fears, a soul that can evolve and grow more rapidly than I have in all my years. So perhaps the opposite of destruction is not creation, but simply balance. And the opposite of creation is not destruction, but constant distraction. So I sit and wait. Write and read. Try to keep my balance. And breathe. Because that’s all I can get right sometimes. #notesfromapregnantdiary #9monthseries Photo @yashyeri Assisted by @vaibhav_dabholkar_ Style @divyabal HMU @angelinajoseph Dress @_naushadali_

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